What is wrong with this statement?

Does anyone else see anything wrong with this quote from an e-mail I received from my mom, regarding my brother and the way he is living:

"but I feel that it's his soul going to hell, not mine."

Yet I'm the bad one FOR caring that his soul is going to hell. And for caring about the souls of my children. I don't know about you but I don't want ANYONE going to hell, let alone my family members.